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See the way while coming later
  Recently, various newspapers and magazines suicidal incident of report numerous, have because emotion issue want, turn on, have because the undertaking comes to the dead end less than satisfactorily, some finishes one's own life because of one's own psychological pressure. In these philtrums, there are students, there are successful personages too.
      I had once had a period of puzzled days too in high school period, had thought for a time too there is not meaning in the life, but think of one's own parents elder sister and younger brother, think of one's own relatives and friends, expect that has a lot of dreams not to realize oneself, expect those to be not so good as person of I, person who envies me still in happy life. I think: What kind of reasons do I have not to allow oneself to survive?
      When you are when being vast and hazy in the emotion, while failing in the undertaking, become estranged in the family, what you should think of at first is how to solve one's own and present predicament, expect with finish own life get rid of all these.
       To persons who commit suicide, it is one that you leave to free, it is a that surmounts the painful life style. But to your family, as to your kith and kin, it is the pain that they can't remedy forever that you leave. For let you produce the people of idea, to leave, influence them at all you. Do you think it is to their best punishment that you choose to leave this world? No, in life in theirs, the sun of your does not rises in the east every day all the same, the west drops. You are just their transient guest hurriedly in life, yours will let them feel sorry, you probably let their sorry qualification not have in succession. Let alone your wanting to change their view in this way, that makes another mistake especially.
      Someone said, when you finished a section of loves, the way that don't see you passing by later, will let you ache even more more wounded like that; Someone says too, when you decided to finish a job to want to resume, how captivating to recall your work in the past, can let step stagnation of you like that. However, I want to say, when you feel desperate about life, as you feel that life is a deep and vast stagnant water for you, when at all with one climax following another, large to see later, see the way that you have passed by, have which very much crazy about once you, think of one's own future, have which want, make but accomplish oneself, think more one's own parents brother and sister, which are there what has been done for you by them but but you did not reciprocate them, there are your relatives and friends, when they have a difficulty that apply to you for help but you have not made sure, offer a commitment of others but without realizing you, but have a perfect life to plan you but without putting into effect, expect as you you have so many let thing that you yearn for, you can willing to to leave this piece let world that you very much crazy about once still?
      Advancing bravely does not want it later, it seems to be the topic that everyone will talk about, it is what everyone can accomplish too, however, when full of thistles and thorns and gather in the front of you, will the way be possible yet when yours is not coming up? Will you still toughen one's scalp to dash forward? Even all scratched up to will not grudge?
      Don't adhere rigidly to one mode without knowing how, making changes according to specific conditions, it is those that choose, commit suicide, come, relieve one's own people of agony just. Your agony is that have freed, but how does the agony which you bring to your family free? Your debt owed before death, will not have a bit reduction because of your leaving, creditor those can choose to give up and chase the debt by your leaving either. Your laughing stocks left before death, will not disappear automatically because of your leaving, those persons once laughing at you will not stop laughing at or feeling guilty for one's own once laughing at because of your leaving either, those persons who has ever injured you will not go to the church to repent the injury that oneself causes to you because of your leaving either. They can not, they will only let your family bear more agony because of your leaving.

      Leaving of you, what can not be changed, only can change little you man these in the world, and your family have born one more copy of agony. 

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Don't lose oneself
Perhaps there are too much helplessness in life, should face the daily necessaries every day, happy and depressed, how on earth to come to face, it is believed that everybody has everybody's choices, everybody is a life style with everybody too, not having it best, suitable and one's own one is the best.

While receiving in every day's psychological consultation, no matter the consultation of the network seeks help or face-to-face consultation, leave oneself live for what it is, oneself busy with what it will be work on earth, live for anyone, busy every day, it is busy with alive that whom do not understand oneself finally day by day, say to be, for family, say to be, for child, can be said until in how about toss about parents even more perhaps, what kind of result it is but finally, touch this topic in consulting each time, much all have no language, all very stunned, very puzzled too, yes, toss about like this by oneself, for what on earth?

Remember coming to seek help because of child's question, say it is a child that does not come really in consultation, have to come over first by oneself, see how to let the child come out, but in the course of consulting, for whom keeping in touch until this topicking, ask the other side is so tired every day, toss about like this, the other side says it is for the child without thinking, so long as the child is happy, so long as the child is obedient, can study hard, believe that will not have anything worried oneself, it will be happy too, but child now states such a, it let oneself not speeched really in the face of,know deserve what to do either. Ask, get up the other side what role it is on earth among family, when who on earth it will be oneself, the other side has not known how to answer, it is housewife and nurse to answer a many one at home for a long time while being tired out, for what on earth or say simply that has never thought of this question, live, for whom on earth to live, do not know that does not understand either how to answer. Some will say so long as the husband is happy, so long as the child is glad, oneself is really good, but does not know why, attack on them wholeheartedly, can not get their approval finally by oneself, oneself willing to bear the burden of work, come to complaint of them, how on earth it does to be kind, how to get their liking? Why want, get to like they, oneself, where does it set free oneself, remember oneself?

When asking oneself each time, mostly ignorant and helpless, yes, oneself, for what oneself is so busy with alive, since not know where to put, how for others how how is it even oneself, oneself how happily does it know, how can make child to be husband happy, does not have even oneself, have others? Like a word that often talks: The person that even oneself does not love, what can be taken to love someone else?

Don't throw oneself, remember to take care, reasons and excuses why oneself is too many that don't give, regard oneself as a machine, just like a puppet, always live in others' eyes, living world in others, oneself no at all, just live as dead-alive person of a body, and how produce oneself while being living so, is it one's own frequent to find?

Give for one time of oneself, put once false, comb oneself diligently for one's own mood too, do massage, put down the burden in the heart, come to face easily for one's own soul, can live, appear one true sunshine self-confident oneself, don't give one's own excuse and reason escape again, believe oneself, should believe one's own choice even more, take one's own way, it is the most important to be happy. 

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 Doing skin care ABC
" doing skin "  Characteristic doing the skins: The sebaceous are secreted little, the skin is dry, lack gloss, is prone to wrinkles. The doing skin is compared "  Tender and lovely" , " sensitive"  ,It is apt to receive the external world physically, chemical factor and ultraviolet ray and dust,etc. influence, the allergic response takes place. However, doing skin, seem relatively fine and smooth on the appearance, the pore is not obvious, there is no greasy sense, so give somebody cleaning, esthetic feeling. So long as strengthen science to cultivate, can avoid one's own deficiency, bring up the skin beautiful.
Cleaning
Must select for use and contain gentle surfactant '  Concentrate the protein fatty acid, moustache algae alkali, precise oil of plant)  Composition soft resisting sensitive clean pieces of products wash face, lipid its, and content to moisten skin factor relatively high. And general soap or clean products will dehumidify skin, wrinkles appear too early. If skin very dry, can cooperate, unload, make up with warm water cream and soft to resist sensitive to wash one's face milk wash the face in evening only, needn't be any clean in the morning the products only use warm water washing.
Work moistly
After washing one's face, don't wipe very much and do. When it is still slightly a little moist to apply and nourish the high resisting water of quick skin caring slowly of composition at once, by supplementing lipid and equilibrating sour alkali value rapidly.
Maintain the work at ordinary times
Daytime - -Pay attention to skin surface water lipid repair and enhancement of membrane especially, choose composition foot, high in quality adding compositioning of moistening skin, strong a day of protecting etc. frost very important. Wipe skin caring at the products, want, let its permeate through skin, draw a circle round one's name massage gently with middle finger slowly, pay attention to not rubing the skin with strength.
Evening - -The focal point when it is at night that the eye is maintained, while choosing the eye skin care products, try hard by mending water moistly as the main fact. The face uses the late frost with moist, nutrient component.
Especially maintain the work
1,Use and protect the lipstick, it contains wax, oils, lipid and lipid alcohol, and often add the vitamin compositions and antiultraviolet compositions which protect the skin quality, facilitate the maintenance of the full of cracks lip and to the shelter of the sunshine, it is early, late and so long as think the lip dry any time and can be used.
2,If skin very sensitive and dry, before applying the late frost, had better spread, have, nourish living cell essence or precise oil of rose of result highly, it can prevent the skin aging, resist wrinkles, deep layer nourishing, regeneration, is very suitable for doing skin quality.
3,Choose moistly, gently and containing the nutriment facial film of plant quintessence naturally, make once at least every week, if the dry situation is very serious, should make and nourish the facial film twice every week.
Diet
Food that the person of the doing skin should pay attention to choosing some fat, vitamin to be with high content in the diet, for instance milk, egg, pork liver, butter and fresh fruit,etc.. .. ......................................................... .........................................................

Relatively happy theory
Those things sanctified by usage will not be changed easily. And the one that can only be decided by oneself, is one's own heart.   So long as there is a happy heart in the heart, it is always easy to find where the happiness is.

Where, where happy! This is a very always very old song, our youth at that time was young, carefree, free running, is thinking what color of marshmallow happiness is one on earth in the colourful sky.

That time, resources are still deficient, the candy of the bad smell of a handful of fruits, is little child's sincerest smile on the face. Mouth include transparent pearl, happiness tangerine that fragrant and sweet originally.

Having grown up, the candy of those years has already withdrawn from the stage evolving, the candy of new generation that what the ones that fetch are taken the place of is one hundred flavor of novelty of all kinds. Rainbow fruit juice candy, the Swiss candy of fruit salad, chocolate of cottonrose hibiscus of morality, every kind has pure taste. To be objective, whom technological content exceed that year absolutely red to like toffees. The just so exquisite soft sweets like strawberry includes in the mouth, has not let the gustatory bud be getting excited. Perhaps, it already tired on taste any of experiencing.

Yes, we are numb all unconsciously. It was the record a long time ago that sealed up for safekeeping in memory, but has not been still broken, because there are few things remembered in that era, so, those rare special taste has been kept. Packed with the thing around now, every day, far too many, many one even close eyes, can see, even not smooth either while dreaming of. So, we have chosen to forget, forget those memory of moving swiftly.

Remembered that once, it is hand in hand to follow the best partner, was saying, we should be together forever. Very innocent, think day so past day by day, everything can in there. As wake up some day, find those already suddenly from well far, commitment that make once those afford to disappear in front of reality. It is we that keep, promise, we even oneself unable to go, believe, it can have been oneself all the time.

Still remember at the time of the school, the teacher of the moral lesson will always assign some propositions of introspecting oneself, let us scrutinize oneself. Most classmates have handed in perfect oneself in the class. Respect the teacher, friendly classmates, cherish the trees, we are all good teenagers. I have racked the brains, can not find out either that has any shortcoming oneself, look, I am a perfect person. A few years later, find this yellowing notebook accidentally while clearing up the things, there are teacher's red comments above: People do not have perfect person. Very hasty and careless, I did not go to look carefully at all at that time, it was only that mark that was cared about. Watching the tender handwriting of above, every one, kindhearted, patient, insist on, industrious, think about others, selfdiscipline. It is familiar but strange to look at so. Perhaps, I was once such a person. Just now, it seems that it is very difficult to hold staying with the morphology.

In Buddha's quotation, there is a word: Have not asked, has not lost. It does not matter and lose to matter. In brief, not wanted not to ask. A young one I it seems to be to have, want, have, ask, matter, mind, lose either, there is nothing to care, there is nothing to struggle too naturally. The world is always full of luring, among them, how have no regard for. So begin, have, want, ask, can begin, complain get satisfied, the mood will get to the bottom of valley low, think what everything wrong it is. Negative mood is inhibiting the whole oneself, it is unable to free.

We begin to transfer the interest to the car, the house, money from the colored candy, all seem to be everybody in things of efforts for it. Must feel have no regard for, want, can receive some day only, all devotion we. Think, go wrong in this way, we to need, go, hard, receive thing wanted. Just nobody stipulates at all times that paying must reciprocate, sometimes, such a inequality exists. No matter the trade on the business field, the relation in emotion world, is never rules to equal two of one plus one.

The friend is an emotional woman, divide and divide shutting with the boyfriend jointly, but always cut constant affection. She want marriage the person give she, but she remain unchanged standing fast at one day of a new vista persistent. I ask her, are you happy in this way? She say, leave he I can regret live on, I can only keep at his side then.

My cool advice which stops me. I always maintain the long pain is not so good as short pain. But insist on not minding being as long as the heaven and earth endure at the same time, only lie in once having. Mind, things that just this world can be eternal are not many at all, instead of adhering to a certain impossible reality fearlessly, this moment when it would be better to believe two pieces of palmistry and hold, heart is happy. In this way, it is enough, no.

Still brilliantly illuminated outside the window, this turning that the world does not still rest, those things sanctified by usage will not be changed easily. And the one that can only be decided by oneself, is one's own heart.

There many answers of that question. Eat longlife noodles that a bowl of mothers boiled, the golden yellow egg on birthday in happiness, oil flows in one's mouth; It is at starlit night that the happiness reviews the homework, the grade examination that was passed at last; The happiness is still one outside alone, receive the telephone of family's care at the night of quietness.

Happy, it is always so modest arrogance. It always stands high above the masses, let people feel difficult to match, but in fact, she turns body into the ordinary things, seen everywhere. So long as there is a happy heart in the heart, it is always easy to find where the happiness is.

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Next life, still become your treasure
For a long time, have been fail to write something to you all the timing. It is not I that turn a blind eye to everything that you do, not even because I do not know how to feel grateful. Just I do not really know how to write.
In our marriage, you make great efforts to fulfill one's own commitment, have given me the happiness that you can give. There is like this, what do you still want? I had something that is unsatisfied with. I only think that say to you that thanks wholeheartedly!
This year of 24 years old, we " know each other " again ,You have come into my life. Someone will surprised perhaps, why be for " know " again ? In fact, we two are family friends, had once had exchanges each other, just fewer and fewer gradually later. After the the Spring Festival, recommend to me, all of us have already grown up you again as someone. Although a lot of people introduce the boyfriend enthusiastically to me, has just finished I of a section of emotions, have no enough time, comb in disorder state of mind, too unwilling to admit others soon so. But for fear of two home of relations, I am not easy to repel you naturally. I know, you spend the time to have a holiday to close to me. My little languages still of few words, you not good at the words, tell me much world which I never foresee outside. Remember at that time, I did not dare to set out on a journey by bike, you will be accompanied my exercise when I came off duty.
Later, you invited me to have a meal. The countryside is unlike the town, there are so many good destinations. Say that invites me to dinner, take me to go to your home naturally. You see I button of overcoat loose, at sew for me. You finish sewing quickly, I have never seen which boy 's hand to have, getting dexterous so consummate stage. You hold me tightly for the first time, make me unable to breath, I want to shake off hard, but the health feels like jelly, can only depend on in your chest quietly, you stroke my hair gently with hands, speak in a low voice in a low voice.
We have begun the letter exchanges, two every week of yours, very punctual. I can't believe, those bolling hot words are to come from you that spoke little. Really a little moved in the heart. But people always say, the woman in the love is stupid, any lie stupid enough is believed. So, I think I should keep the sober head.
" May Day " Hour, you come back to see me. Insisting on helping my mother to cook every day, mother always says in front of me how good you are, listen to the callous son of my ears. Have repugnant silks in the heart unavoidably. You seem not to care, continue so.
" 11 " When,you again come back. You tell me, for me, you have already used and lost the vacation of all. You should talk with me carefully. After supper, we went to the lotus pool by the village together.
"Let's get married! "
I hesitate to look at you, do not know how to answer. As to the marriage, I nourish the frightened heart.
The shoulder that you embraced me says, " believe me, I will be kind to you, baby. "
My heart has been already very tired. No longer worry about me for mother, no longer drift oneself. I am just like a gambler, not going to predict future, I decide to give oneself to you. Certainly also because of moving. Remember one day, you met me and came off duty. Bring I by bike, because on the opposite side come on a car, while dodging, we fall down. I am fallen on the ground, but you have fallen into the wayside paddy field. After you climb up from the field, not because go to wash the dirt on one's body, but see intensely whether I have been injured.
After marriage, you have been very kind to me all the time. Someone's joke, see me, you needn't have a meal. Because property that you work, we pass, blow, gather little from many day. But this does not influence your emotion to me. There was not a telephone at that time, you still insisted on writing two letters to me every week. So long as at home, all house work that you will undertake to do a job until it is completed, do everything possible to dote on me very much. Every morning, you will get up early very, give me make breakfast, will afford to see I first first. I am enjoying everything that you give to me with one's heart at peace.
Even so, sometimes I am still because something is unhappy. I do not want to tell you, I know, it is difficult either for you to work outside, do not want to make you anxious. At this moment, you will say, " you do not tell me, I will worry. "
Because not healthy, cause child's premature delivery, you feel guilty very much while coming back. You hold children, say embracing me, " baby, let you suffer hardships! I should be by compensating you all one's life. " Tears spin in the eye socket in me, I turn on head, bite, shut up lip tightly.
While going out, you will help me to pack the luggage; Walk on the road, you will drag my hands tightly, unwilling to unclamp.
Revitalizing industry, revitalizing the family, on every birthday, you will give me a pleasant surprise, give a present to me. I like doing shopping, feel like especially enjoying to that kind of God like all women. In order to do shopping, I will look for all sorts of reasons, feel too sometimes oneself is a little excessive, it is too shy to buy again. You will say, " always lack a garment in the woman's wardrobe. I know. Want, buy, buy Luo, don't bitter oneself. Just think it is my smoking flower. "
I am an introversive person, like frequently being cranky. There are worries, like hiding on the bottom of heart too. Sometimes, will you say to me, " wonder what is put in melon of this cerebellum of yours? Why are there so many strange ideas? "
Not the day at home. You will call me, the weather changes, all matters, big and small, you will exhort me repeatedly. I will ask you there is any thing sometimes, you say it is only the voice which listen to me. So, the telephone expenses have become a great expenses of our family.
I am happy for oneself, determined to marry oneself carelessly that year, it is inhuman not to hold. I have already been used to everything that you have given to me.
People often say, life samsara. Have next life really, I will refuse, drink Meng old woman soup, it is sober for me to take. Otherwise, I'm afraid not to find you by oneself. I will take you by hand again, will give oneself to you completely together with heart, only become your treasure. In 18, I have already been used to all, am used to your care. But I think time too short. In day that you go on a long journey soon, I want, say to you next life, I make treasure of you even. ObamaRiceRiceObamanuclear vigilancenuclear vigilanceObamaObamaboostU.S.boost

It is the written confession pleading after 80
After 80 is the 1st generation of only-child, then we have no siblings; We catch up with reform and opening-up when being born in sharp, then we must " enjoy " Everything is " wading across the stream by feeling the way " Achievement; We and color TV appeared in China at the same time, then we became directions that eyeballs of people stay.
The older generations, how about can you understand the agony without playmate while as a child. Parents say: "Obedient, don't go out while staying at home. " Rush about against lock door for life. We look at the sunshine outside window, seem fly (have brightness and has no future) on the windowpane . Well, we can only give oneself to inflate with speaking by oneself by oneself. We do not just understand very much how to get along with people. After all, nobody can choose to be born in times.
We used to machine exchange, from TV to computer, from red-and-white to iPod, we clear to know every button of functions, but we do not know the society " The ridgepole and beam " Still for sharp knife in honey smiling face later on earth. We are a lot of hundred years before former generation and know Ruan Yu only leaves on one's deathbed through the science and technology of developing at full speed " Gossip is a terrible thing " Four words. When we yet imply these 4 words behind one's back puzzledly, former generations have caught up with a number one too: The first group of laid-off workers, then we learn there is a word to let ' the moral degeneration of the world is getting worse day by day from former generation " . Having the first " The morality chicken of Kenya " When Hou,we tell: Have not graduated and guaranteed job assignment and said again.
May we shrink back on these questions? No, unless die young, we do not have way of escape that can leave. As a generation growing up in the market economy environment, we dare to challenge the authoritative and traditional idea. We have abundant confidence, believe we can block one side alone.
We have studied " It must be useful to be born me " ,We know too " The affairs of human life are hard to predict " ; We know what be top famous brand most, we know button that fall down on how to sew too; We can sing Zhou Jielun, Cai Yilin, we will not forget Lei Feng, Xu HongGang either; We realize and get " The money is not omnipotent " ,We experience too " Absolutely can have money "

True, we are not ripe enough, have this or that shortcomings. But this generation of ours, 80 post this generation, the oldest one is only 27 years old! The ancient says: Able to establish one's career at thirty, life begins at forty, 50 knows God's will. The older generations loving and respecting it, please give us time and give directions for us, but not the criticism simply, unless, you wish to be " 4.5 kilograms of old women " . If can't accept our mode of thinking, please smile to bless us to the little seamaid like that at least.

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